ARRRRGGGGHHHH!!!!!

Ok time for my first scream. I had a blowout with my wife last night. We started arguing about household chores and it degenerated from there. I feel like I have no time to do the things I want to do. I want to write, get the stories racing in my head out. I feel that I can't take that time to myself. I can't because I feel that my wife will get angry at me for being selfish. I don't know how to resolve this. She told me that all I have to do is just tell her. I want to believe that. I want to. Her body language though says otherwise. It just makes me want to scream. Raise my head to the heavens and scream my throat raw. I hope that it will help. It probably won't but sometimes you just have to let the stress out.